Speaking of books that change your life (although I suppose they all must, in some manner. Imagine how many buses you've avoided stepping in front of because instead of going out you stayed home and read on the couch) here is one that purports to.  Either you like Alain de Boton or you don't. He is much like 50 Cent and certain types of cheese in that way. If no, this book is a good way to feel like you've read Swann's Way if you have not and don't plan to, but would still like to reference it at dinner parties. 

Towards the end he offers a piece of good advice which is that sometimes it is a good idea to put books down. Like most people who read, I often use books as a way to avoid real life. Finishing a difficult book is a good way to convince yourself you have done something important and that you are a substantial and productive member of society. At a certain point though, bosses and graduate school applications and landlords and mothers and others indifferent to your solitary accomplishments refuse to be ignored. You can't hide behind these paper walls forever, as much as you would like to. At least, this is what I keep telling myself though I have yet to take my own advice.